Sunday, 22 February 2015

7 Signs You Have An Amazing Friend.

Friends - They're that integral part of your life that is indispensible. Be it an ugly heartbreak or a crazy crush, a true and an amazing friend is always there for you. They have been there no matter what, and have never said "I told you so!" when you fall down. There'll be people who will call themselves your "friends" throughout your life, but during the darkest nights and the worst storms do you find out who your true friends are. So, if you think you have a friend who has always been there for you, here are _ signs they are amazing friends worth keeping:

1. They don't get tired of your rants and complaints.






They will never get irritated of your continuous "I hate him." and "My life sucks." It doesn't matter if you're telling it to them for the first time or the millionth time, they are great listeners every time.


2. They don't judge you for your obsessions and your addictions.






They have seen you in your vulnerabilities and have also seen you in your craziest moments. They have seen you fan-girl over random people, and they still love you just the same.


3. You can share your deepest, darkest secrets without any apprehension..








They are like your psychotherapists - you can pour out your heart, and they will keep the secrets with them till they die, and after that.


4. They give you your personal space, and aren't clingy.








They know and accept that you have a life outside your friendship zone, and they accept it. And if you're lucky enough, they become good friends with your other friends too.


5. They will stop you when you're wrong, and tell you the harsh truth easily.









They don't sugar-coat things or manipulate them. They know when they have to be harsh with you and when they need to give you a shoulder. They will stop you from doing the wrong thing, no matter what.


6. They don't carry grudges along the way.









You both might fight madly, might stop talking for a while, might curse and abuse - but after the fight ends, there's no ego in between. EVER.


7. And, lastly - They will always be there for you when you need them.









They will never let you go - no matter how many years have gone by. They are always one phone call away, and they'll be there crying with you, laughing with you, and hugging you in the worst of times.



You should consider yourself very lucky if you have a friend with these qualities. Times will test your friendship, and when you cross them with hands held together do you know that they are worth keeping.